Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Pretty Legendary



September 7, 2015

Weekly email

Today is Tuesday and this morning we took the car to get an oil
change. It took a lot longer than expected so we walked a little ways
to Taco Bell before getting picked up by member. We had breakfast at
Taco Bell and studied. Then we walked all the heck way to the Walmart.
From there we walk to remember for lunch. While there we discussed
going to the temple and also discussed modesty. Are investigator, Walt, was there as well. Sister Abrams, the member, asked for a blessing. It was awesome
to have Walt there to see it. They then give us a ride to get our car
at the garage. We tried to visit a bunch of people without
too much success. Then we went back to our apartment and prepared for
dinner with an investigator. Investigator, Tony, took us to Arby's and
we had a long discussion with him. After dinner we went to the church
and took Tony on a tour. He's an awesome guy really nice.

Max came out with us on Wednesday and we almost died in the minivan
that Max was driving because of the awesome peelout Max had at
50mph doing a turn. We visited a lot of people who didn't really
answer the door to us, and Max was wondering if this is how mission life
will be and we said that its about half and half, depending on the day
or season or the work within the area. When Max went back we went
tracting (knocking doors) and that is where we met a guy named Jesse
who came all the way from an east African country to find work as a
scientist. He wants to talk with is because he feels that the Book of
Mormon will answer a lot of the questions he couldn't find a solid
answer to throughout his life. We then had dinner at the Hodges house
and went to go “Find and Teach”, which we found some people and a kid in
a wheelchair was out walking his dog and the dog got stuck in the wheels
so while he asked us to untangle the dog he asked for the book I was
carrying, which was the Book of Mormon. So I gave him a copy and he
wanted to read it because "I don't really do much else and I need a
book to read, and that looks interesting". Late we taught a man named
Ricky who was somewhat interested in the message we shared. We had to
go home after that so we went back to our abode.

Thursday most of the day today was spent weekly planning. We needed
some fresh air so we decided to go out and check the mail, no mail...
While Checking the mail we saw a moving truck pull up to a neighboring
apartment. We decided to go ask if they needed help. At first they
said no but then said yes it would be nice. So we went and helped them
move for quite a while. They were very appreciative and it was a good
experience to be able to help them. Very nice people. Didn't break too
many things. After that, we went to Five Guys  for dinner and Sweet Frog with a
member from the congregation. It was delicious and we left 10 pounds
heavier. Still looking good though. I got like 10 brain
freezes. Then we wrapped up the night by visiting a guy that was not
the most open to our message. In a “round about” way he told us the book
of Mormon is false. We asked him straight up if he was saying it was
false and he said yes. So we bore solid testimony to him. We then went
to a gas station to visit a member who was working there.

Eat Pasta Not War shirt for preparation day 
Friday we woke up at 5:50 and went to Seminary, we were invited by
Sister James, the Bishop's wife, and she's the teacher and we discussed
Genesis chapters 1 through four in the creation of the world and that
was really interesting to hear the different things about how there
was extreme planning that went into the creation with Heavenly
Father's divine purpose and potential for us as individuals coming
under Jesus Christ and being able to rely on him and all of the
challenges that we have through the world. That was created everything
is for our benefit. At 6:40 we left for apartment to go back and
prepare for the day and we received a phone call from Max saying that
he would pick us up at 9 o'clock for our zone meeting at 10 AM. We
were two minutes late to  our meeting But we were able to still
continue right on schedule although we ended 25 minutes late. it
happens every once in awhile.  We found out more in our zone meeting
that there is more service opportunities that we can have to share the
gospel- that every single activity within the church is for others to
come and know what we are all about. We also learned more that
obedience and sacrifice that is required for blessings and miracles.
We then had lunch with Elders Walker, Oler, Udy, Johnson, Langford,
and Max at Firehouse Subs which was a really good sandwich place.
Driving back we drove through a giant storm which was really cool and
I talked with Max about video games and other such things afterwards.
We met with Dwayne and Katelyn and we had to drop both because of the
issues of not keeping commitments. We then had dinner and went and
completed our weekly planning.

Saturday we went to the Farmers Market in the morning and I
bought some meat and popcorn then after that we went and helped out of
the Op shop until noon. From that point in time we then had lunch and
after that was when we went to Colonial Beach and talked with an
investigator here named Mark. We then went to the McNamara household
and found that we needed to see someone else in another area, so we
visited the Strickland family and had dinner and a lesson with them.
We saw the importance that one family and each individual has for that
family in strengthening the home. We then talked with a Muslim man who
wasn't the most interested or friendly when we tried to talk with him,
but his Christian mother was very happy to talk with us! That was
really cool.

Sunday we went to church and had a wonderful Fast and Testimony
meeting. There were many testimonies given that really uplifted us,
include and also uplifted a recent convert that was with us. Following
Sacrament meeting and Sunday school we went in with the Young Men for
class. It was pretty interesting; they were pretty crazy all day. The
young men are pretty awesome though. We are supposed to be giving a
fireside this coming Sunday on how to share the gospel friends. We are
pretty excited for it have been planning hard. Well somewhat hard.

During church some random visiting member from California came and
spoke with us and told us he wanted to take us to dinner soon. He also
said that he would like to participate in the 40 day fast going on in
the ward. The 40 day fast is where one family each day for 40 days
fast for missionary work. After church we went and visited a few
different people, spoke with some members. We went and visited that
same person that always asks about my watch. I told him that if he
reads the first eight chapters of the book of Mormon and tells us what
it is about that I will give him my watch. He was pretty excited to
except that challenge. We'll see how that goes, I'll let you know.

After that we went to dinner with the Millers. The kids always try to
ambush us with Nerf guns. They were pretty dang intense armory of
guns. As I explained in the last email… We had some great lasagna
there and shared a message that they really enjoyed. The message was
about preach my gospel, love, and favorite scriptures. It was really
just all over the place. Brother Miller drove us around after dinner
and we visited with less active members as well as investigators. Work
here is tough but well worth it. At the end of the night we visited
with a member family who Brother Miller home teaches. They were very
interesting family but their way awesome. That pretty much wraps of
the night and the week, hope you all have an awesome week and
especially a great Labor Day!
Random view 

Quote for the week (this was said by one of the young men that came
out with us to visit people one day) "ya know when you are younger and
there are people that are legendary in your eyes, like the president,
the missionaries, your parents. Then you grow up and they aren't as
legendary as you thought, except the missionaries, they are still pretty Legendary. 



pretty legendary."

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Spiritual, draining, quick and slow

August 31, 2015

About my new area, King George.

King George covers a huge area (there is my last area, Staunton VA which was the largest area in the mission, King George is the second largest and iIthought Staunton was country.... not even close, King George is near DC so a lot of people commute to DC or work at Dahlgren military base, also most people that we are finding do construction, are retired, or live in a trailer park. We have Colonial Beach in our area and the breeze really helps take the humidity slightly off our backs and in the King George area there are some crazy awesome people as well.

Just to give a slight brief explanation of how I do my weekly letters
and emails, I review my week and write down points I want to elaborate
on or just events the went on. Most all the people or things I talk
about in these are slightly edited due to my feelings of what went on,
what really happened, and personal privacy. Plus a bit of time
restraint. I only got an hour or slightly more to write emails and
read them... 

From Transfer Day
Monday was mainly our day of preparation and having a member feed us.
We then afterwards went to a really really old guy's house (Murdock) and he is very fun to talk with.
He has seen the world and had done everything and it was a request by
a member to have us stop by so we were happy to help out! We then had
family home evening with a younger couple and they made tie dye shirts
for us.

Tuesday this week we were focused on doing something called "power
visits" which is where we stopped by members of the church's home and
had 5 minute power lesson to be able to get to know the members a lot more, then after each house we visited, we went to go find people to teach
by knocking the doors nearby. There was one 13yr old kid who was super
cool doing tricks on his scooter who stopped us and talked with us about what we were teaching and wanted to know more so we basically
said "we can come back another day because we have to go, but here's
the link to the website for our church and in the meantime you gotta
ask your mom if we can come by and teach." just because we have to get permission to teach minors. After we left and went finding more people to teach there was a lady that got super mad at us for "soliciting" so I asked her a question or two about our message and my companion did the same and she got super mad at us and super red in the face and started saying very non-polite things to us so we just said "have a blessed day mam" and left. The spirit of peace was headed out of the conversation. We then went dinner and stopped by one or two more people before the night ended.

Wednesday we had a meeting with the district (or group) of
missionaries that work around our areas. I learned more about being in
tune with the spirit and how to be able to be more bold, not blunt.
After the meeting the other elders and us had a lunch break and I
taught one of the other elders how to wrestle like a Mongolian fellow
showed me one time, that was fun. He won, and that was a good
experience for the both of us. We headed back tour area and we were
visiting potential investigators along the way back home, we changed
out of our suits then went to go and teach the world!
 
My district 

Elder Paskett,Elder Langford,Elder Day ,and my companion Elder Johnson (he has the very light Blue Tie)
We met a man named Joshua whose wife is looking for a church for their pluthera of kids so we invited them to church and they agreed they would come! We talked with Dwayne later that night about the book of Mormon and he got it on his mobile device to read and just right there started reading it, it was awesome to see someone so interested in the Book of Mormon.

Thursday during the morning in personal study I happened to find a
topic to study within the scriptures. Cleansing the Inner Vessel for
Christ. I learned many great things about being able to have an outward change means what happens on the inside must change or there is no effect of what can be done with what is trying to be changed It was also weekly planning and that was interesting because we were planning for next week for people that we were teaching later that day. We taught 3 new investigators we found yesterday that told us we could come back today. One had some crazy deeply rooted questions about God and perceptions of God, the other 2 were just curious about what we believed

Friday we went and helped out at the Opp shop and I got comics then
afterwards we then visited a ton of people and pretty much no one was
home and talked to L.  and showed him “And He Lives” Mormon message
had dinner with the Weeds and they cooked the pasta that I had and we
talked with brother Weight and he talked all about his past
and afterwards we wanted to visit people but no one was really home.  We are both tried and tested and it was hard.

Saturday
We went to the church building to do area book work then Bro Alvarez
asked us to help clean the building so we cleaned a few windows and
then went to Dwayne and he wasn't able to talk so we had a struggle
figuring out what to do so then went and stopped by Josh and invited
him to church. After we went to pick up the copies of the Book of
Mormon and had food from a member for lunch. I got my hot wheels car
of the Delorian car. Then I had 6 hotdogs then we stopped by a ton of
peoples’ houses and people were not available to talk. We felt
impressed to walk to a former investigator's house but stopped by the
other house in front and we talked with an awesome older African
couple who loved Jesus and wanted to read the Book of Mormon.

After we went to dinner with some young single adult members I found out were in our stake (I had known them from my first area on the mission in
Glen Allen) and they fed us pizza (David and Haylee). It was some good
pizza. After that they said that they would get in contact with us
again to set up another time to bring someone they knew to hear the
Gospel of Jesus Christ and what we taught.

We then stopped by an investigators house and she was outside with some friends looking after the kids playing around on the block. All the kids came up to us and asked Elder Johnson if he had any Jesus cards so we started passing out cards and they all thanked us for them.

After we felt we needed to stop by Dwayne and a miracle happened. He was home and said that he wanted to come to church! So we are excited to see him and Josh and Josh's family. Today was my first companion in the field’s birthday (Elder Hopkins) so when we were with the members of the young single adult ward who knew Elder Hopkins, I let them know about the birthday and they said that they would leave some goodies to their place and write that I say hello as well. We had a kind of rough rest of the night because the people that were supposed to see were all were getting in their car to go somewhere... Ahh well, got the new phone today and that is an adjustment to get used to.

Sunday we participated in the young men's group during church for
their meeting that they had discussing the way that they were going to
set up their organization of planning and carrying forth plans for the
rest of the existence of the King George Ward.  It was interesting to
see. There is 1 sixteen yr old, one 14yr old and 7 twelve year old
kids. That was probably one of the most interesting and actually very
effective planning sessions I have ever been a part of since my days
of youth group. We also visited a lot of people and had the 16 yr old
teach his family a gospel lesson when we backed him up. For dinner we
went to a members house and they had a ton of Lego collections and Nerf guns (like 8 times as much as me) so they asked if we could have
a nerf gun war with them and we debated.... But then dinner was ready!

It was an awesome dinner too. Calzone Quesadeas. Afterward the father of the family was able to come out with us to visit some people we had in mind and then he asked us the question "what life events made you decide to go on a mission and why are you here now?"

Thankfully my companion went first and he told of his conversion story(which was an honor to hear), then I told of how for me, the forgiving power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ and being able to be free from regret and harbored things was a main reason, but the most important to me was The Love that God and Jesus Christ have for us.

And that was the final thing that ended our night... it was a very spiritual week and very draining and it felt quick, yet slow. Just like with all things we focus on so much that it becomes what we want to strive for in our understanding and being.



Elder Day