Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Spiritual, draining, quick and slow

August 31, 2015

About my new area, King George.

King George covers a huge area (there is my last area, Staunton VA which was the largest area in the mission, King George is the second largest and iIthought Staunton was country.... not even close, King George is near DC so a lot of people commute to DC or work at Dahlgren military base, also most people that we are finding do construction, are retired, or live in a trailer park. We have Colonial Beach in our area and the breeze really helps take the humidity slightly off our backs and in the King George area there are some crazy awesome people as well.

Just to give a slight brief explanation of how I do my weekly letters
and emails, I review my week and write down points I want to elaborate
on or just events the went on. Most all the people or things I talk
about in these are slightly edited due to my feelings of what went on,
what really happened, and personal privacy. Plus a bit of time
restraint. I only got an hour or slightly more to write emails and
read them... 

From Transfer Day
Monday was mainly our day of preparation and having a member feed us.
We then afterwards went to a really really old guy's house (Murdock) and he is very fun to talk with.
He has seen the world and had done everything and it was a request by
a member to have us stop by so we were happy to help out! We then had
family home evening with a younger couple and they made tie dye shirts
for us.

Tuesday this week we were focused on doing something called "power
visits" which is where we stopped by members of the church's home and
had 5 minute power lesson to be able to get to know the members a lot more, then after each house we visited, we went to go find people to teach
by knocking the doors nearby. There was one 13yr old kid who was super
cool doing tricks on his scooter who stopped us and talked with us about what we were teaching and wanted to know more so we basically
said "we can come back another day because we have to go, but here's
the link to the website for our church and in the meantime you gotta
ask your mom if we can come by and teach." just because we have to get permission to teach minors. After we left and went finding more people to teach there was a lady that got super mad at us for "soliciting" so I asked her a question or two about our message and my companion did the same and she got super mad at us and super red in the face and started saying very non-polite things to us so we just said "have a blessed day mam" and left. The spirit of peace was headed out of the conversation. We then went dinner and stopped by one or two more people before the night ended.

Wednesday we had a meeting with the district (or group) of
missionaries that work around our areas. I learned more about being in
tune with the spirit and how to be able to be more bold, not blunt.
After the meeting the other elders and us had a lunch break and I
taught one of the other elders how to wrestle like a Mongolian fellow
showed me one time, that was fun. He won, and that was a good
experience for the both of us. We headed back tour area and we were
visiting potential investigators along the way back home, we changed
out of our suits then went to go and teach the world!
 
My district 

Elder Paskett,Elder Langford,Elder Day ,and my companion Elder Johnson (he has the very light Blue Tie)
We met a man named Joshua whose wife is looking for a church for their pluthera of kids so we invited them to church and they agreed they would come! We talked with Dwayne later that night about the book of Mormon and he got it on his mobile device to read and just right there started reading it, it was awesome to see someone so interested in the Book of Mormon.

Thursday during the morning in personal study I happened to find a
topic to study within the scriptures. Cleansing the Inner Vessel for
Christ. I learned many great things about being able to have an outward change means what happens on the inside must change or there is no effect of what can be done with what is trying to be changed It was also weekly planning and that was interesting because we were planning for next week for people that we were teaching later that day. We taught 3 new investigators we found yesterday that told us we could come back today. One had some crazy deeply rooted questions about God and perceptions of God, the other 2 were just curious about what we believed

Friday we went and helped out at the Opp shop and I got comics then
afterwards we then visited a ton of people and pretty much no one was
home and talked to L.  and showed him “And He Lives” Mormon message
had dinner with the Weeds and they cooked the pasta that I had and we
talked with brother Weight and he talked all about his past
and afterwards we wanted to visit people but no one was really home.  We are both tried and tested and it was hard.

Saturday
We went to the church building to do area book work then Bro Alvarez
asked us to help clean the building so we cleaned a few windows and
then went to Dwayne and he wasn't able to talk so we had a struggle
figuring out what to do so then went and stopped by Josh and invited
him to church. After we went to pick up the copies of the Book of
Mormon and had food from a member for lunch. I got my hot wheels car
of the Delorian car. Then I had 6 hotdogs then we stopped by a ton of
peoples’ houses and people were not available to talk. We felt
impressed to walk to a former investigator's house but stopped by the
other house in front and we talked with an awesome older African
couple who loved Jesus and wanted to read the Book of Mormon.

After we went to dinner with some young single adult members I found out were in our stake (I had known them from my first area on the mission in
Glen Allen) and they fed us pizza (David and Haylee). It was some good
pizza. After that they said that they would get in contact with us
again to set up another time to bring someone they knew to hear the
Gospel of Jesus Christ and what we taught.

We then stopped by an investigators house and she was outside with some friends looking after the kids playing around on the block. All the kids came up to us and asked Elder Johnson if he had any Jesus cards so we started passing out cards and they all thanked us for them.

After we felt we needed to stop by Dwayne and a miracle happened. He was home and said that he wanted to come to church! So we are excited to see him and Josh and Josh's family. Today was my first companion in the field’s birthday (Elder Hopkins) so when we were with the members of the young single adult ward who knew Elder Hopkins, I let them know about the birthday and they said that they would leave some goodies to their place and write that I say hello as well. We had a kind of rough rest of the night because the people that were supposed to see were all were getting in their car to go somewhere... Ahh well, got the new phone today and that is an adjustment to get used to.

Sunday we participated in the young men's group during church for
their meeting that they had discussing the way that they were going to
set up their organization of planning and carrying forth plans for the
rest of the existence of the King George Ward.  It was interesting to
see. There is 1 sixteen yr old, one 14yr old and 7 twelve year old
kids. That was probably one of the most interesting and actually very
effective planning sessions I have ever been a part of since my days
of youth group. We also visited a lot of people and had the 16 yr old
teach his family a gospel lesson when we backed him up. For dinner we
went to a members house and they had a ton of Lego collections and Nerf guns (like 8 times as much as me) so they asked if we could have
a nerf gun war with them and we debated.... But then dinner was ready!

It was an awesome dinner too. Calzone Quesadeas. Afterward the father of the family was able to come out with us to visit some people we had in mind and then he asked us the question "what life events made you decide to go on a mission and why are you here now?"

Thankfully my companion went first and he told of his conversion story(which was an honor to hear), then I told of how for me, the forgiving power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ and being able to be free from regret and harbored things was a main reason, but the most important to me was The Love that God and Jesus Christ have for us.

And that was the final thing that ended our night... it was a very spiritual week and very draining and it felt quick, yet slow. Just like with all things we focus on so much that it becomes what we want to strive for in our understanding and being.



Elder Day

Thursday, August 27, 2015

G's Gangsters

August 24, 2015

Tuesday morning we woke up and it was really rough to get up because
we both were so exhausted. We both had issues and fears and concerns
about the black mold that was previously found in our apartment. After that
we had a personal study while we pack up my things and we called
Sister Sopp saying that we could go in a moments notice. That was
crazy. There is a lot of issues and shenanigans going on with our
apartment because of the black mold incident and we have received
guidance to think that we feel that we should move out of that
apartment into another apartment or complex or figure out a way to
permanently destroy the black mold. We met with the McNamara family
and from there we then help a Sister Deels put in flooring. We put in
linoleum with the help of Sister Deels’ daughter whom was a little too friendly with us missionaries and it was interesting to see what she tried.

Elder Johnson and I removed sister Deel's old and not so clean
Kitchen devices such as the cabinets the oven and stove and the
refrigerator  and bugs and put down the long linoleum and then afterwards put
everything back. 

There was a ruckus after that we might be back to the McNamara's place had dinner there taught a lesson about the importance of the temples. There was also a lot of pizza and ice cream we heard many awesome stories from Sister McNamara. 

There is also a person that we stop by, Dwayne, who had previously met with the
missionaries a year ago but he had moved from his apartment to an
actual home and now he is seeking to have his daughter christened and
hopefully will hopefully be interested in hearing the message of
Jesus Christ that we share. We are now planning at the church building
and actually finished planting and my companion is recording on his
device as I'm recording on mine and he has some pretty funny stuff
going on with the voice.

Wednesday we woke up, got ready and did the "morning routine" and from
there we had personal study and discussed in comp study the importance
of doctrine. We cleaned to make sure our apartment was clean so we can directly
be influenced by the Holy Ghost without distractions. We then went to
the church building and did area book work and then had lunch over
there. We visited Regina and Gary, Regina had the flu so we
just talked with her outside and she said she was reading the Book of
Mormon and comparing passages she could relate to from the bible. Gary
doesn’t  live at the address we tried so we went finding on a street
nearby and didn't really talk to anyone that much because no matter
who answered the door (if anyone) they said we were wasting our time
with them. There were a few people who said thank you and a few who
got extremely mad at us. Well other then that my Companion had a hardcore
über bloody nose that popped outa no(se)where... Get it, “nose” but
“nowhere”.   We pet a horse (pretty sure it was a thoroughbred) and I
also found that my comp and I have a lot in common! We went to the
library for Mormon.org time and basically I was on the gospel library
application getting videos that we can use for street contacting. We
had dinner and headed to a lesson.

We had exchanges today it being Thursday. We also had Max drive us to
the Boscabell  building for our exchange and district revelatory
experience (meeting). The reason I call it that was because I learned a lot
about being able to be more obedient and how to improve working with
members and be more diligent. I gave the training on diligence and
Sister Prash gave a training on obedience. We had the zone leaders (Elder Pese and Elder Oler) with us and they helped us spiritually plan
for this upcoming month and they were surprised that we had already
spiritually created a vision and goals and plans to work with the
members and be able to be more purposeful missionaries (as I like to
think of it) and be able to have goals to work toward.

On the exchange I went on today I went to the Heartwood area with Elder Paskett and he taught me about being more "focused on where we go and not waste time" because I walked slower and thought about things as I walked and he thought at a faster walking pace then I sped up so he helped us get to where we were going. We went finding in an apartment complex and were (sadly) not able to teach any official lessons, we received many potential invitations back and we even found a former investigator who said we
could come back. I also learned the importance of proselyting at a door instead of finding at a door. That was awesome to learn and gain more of an understanding of.

When we went to a member's house for dinner he asked us to pick it up for him so we had popusa and ordered it in a ghetto Guatemalan food joint. We brought it back and he told us stories of his life as we were eating and we then talked about the importance of the gospel of Jesus Christ. After we went finding and visited one or two members for "power visits" then went to a street called Old Forge. Some crazy stuff apparently happens there. Anyway we
were there to find people to teach and visit potential investigators.
We then went finding a street over and after a while we saw it was
going to dump on us some heavy rain so we booked it back to the car
then went to visit some more people. The member that had us for dinner
called us for help and we helped him out. He then gave us chocolate
cake! That was crazy and kinda nice and made me feel good. We then
went to check up on some more people and when it started raining it
was very close to 9 (like 8:50) and it took a while to get back to our
apartment so we headed back to our nightly plan.

I woke up from exchange, cooked macaroni, got ready for a personal study,
had personal study, had a comp study, left the house, visited potentials,
and went to the library print off some stuff that was the interview
questionnaire. Then we went to church building found out that other elders
would not be there when we expected so went back to Wawa and got food
and I got a panini while Elder Paskett got the pizza thing.   Elder
Langford, Elder Johnson and I took a lot of photos and had some good
conversations and Elder Paskett was quite quiet and angry at all of
us. it was quite funny and we kind of expected that. We had conversations
and continued to eat lunch.  We have had many many transfers and exchanges and we want to go do things. President told that being diligent and a
purposeful missionary was key to having a worthwhile mission where I
grow and develop.  We had a “missionary jeopardy jam” about a lot of
information on the mission work with Sister Wilson. We also discussed
the importance of being more consecrated in the mission work. There
are many things I am seeing that are important.  I discussed with my companion what higher laws may be for and different examples.

Saturday a lot happened (mostly all was in small miracles) and the
first was with teaching a man we met on Thursday. a man named Dwayne.
He was someone (on Thursday) we literally ran into at 8:50pm because
we felt it was time to head in but it wasn't 9o'clock (our going home time) yet so Elder
Johnson drove and turned into a driveway. This man happened to be someone whom missionaries taught previously a year ago who was interested in
discussing Jesus Christ with us but since it was so late he asked us
to come by Saturday morning around 11am, and we did and we had a
lesson which was super powerful and the spirit testified this was
important to Dwayne.  Earlier that day Elder Johnson and I practiced
teaching and the practice was a wreck... But we felt like because we
practiced beforehand the lesson had determination of having the
spirit testify of truth that was more directed.

After we weekly planned for much of the day, there was another miracle from a lady named Katelyn. She was someone that we and the previous missionaries had been trying to get in contact with for a long time, and we felt like right before
the time we had the dinner we had scheduled (with ourselves only) we
stopped by and Katelyn let us in and her husband gave us some ribs to
eat! Katelyn is very stressed taking care of a 2yr old kid. We had a
really good lesson with her and had her seek peace. After we went to
the Saturday night of adult Stake Conference and guess who I saw....
My trainer! Elder Hopkins, I have so much respect and love that bro
and I am glad that he was my missionary companion in the field. We
talked for a bit and a member that we both knew offered to take us to
dinner, so heck yeah! It was awesome, to and from the stake conference
we had a ride and that was another miracle because every single person
we contacted from 11am-4pm said they couldn't and it started at 6...
Miracle we got over there. Good thing too because much revelation was
received.

Sunday
Woke up and had personal study. My companionship study was rushing over
to the church building to be able to make it with the Miller family
over to Stake Conference at another building. At Stake Conference
we heard from the temple president and the temple president's wife as
well as Elder Perkins of the Quorum of the Seventy and two youth speakers
from the Stake,  one who recently received their mission call to go to
Brazil and the other a young sister talking about not knowing
everything but being able to grow in faith in Jesus Christ.

I saw Elder Walker, a former companion of mine and we connected and said hello again. You are still really awesome and funny! After going home and having
lunch and I cooked pasta for lunch then did area bookwork. After
which we went to Regina and Tori and Regina was not home but Tori was
and was unable to talk at the moment. We set up another time where we
can be able to come back. After we headed to Colonial Beach and then
headed to the McNamara family for dinner.

In Colonial Beach, we talked to 7 or eight different people about the gospel
of Jesus Christ and the importance of reading the Book of Mormon to
find the connections going on in the world today and in each one of our lives. I realize that being able to testify as I most important tool and it is important for others to now that we know through prayer are Heavenly Father will reveal all things of truth important for ourselves to receive that peace that we always seek.

A family's Deloren model collection 
At dinner, we had a good discussion with the McNamara family about temple work in the importance of connecting each others generations. After dinner we had a list of members that we are going to visit and one of the people who we
visited did not live there any more but the man who did live in the house
had a horrible experience where his kids got taken away early by his ex
wife after he had gotten into a car accident being hit by a drunk driver and
his brand-new car was wrecked so he was renting a minivan.   As we are talking
with him, he was unpacking all of the things that looked like he was
going to take his kids camping and he was very sad. We visited a
lot more people and most of them were not home or did not live there
anymore and some people we stoped by on the street and discussed the
gospel with them. Today was about "sifting the wheat from
the tares"

as Elder Johnson put it, and we are going through many trials
at the moment when finding a new investigators. We are able to meet
one of two new potentials that were no longer interested.

 Coming back home we decided to come to the church building and
nightly plan for tomorrow are preparation day and all day long we have
been listening to some good music which were church hymns.

Elder Day


My

companion and I after planning. A member's model Deloreans